Small Prostate Vibrator

This toy takes all the basics from our collective wish list and crams them into a 2.75-inch thick body with a bulbous tip and a flexible shaft. Designed to turn your sex life into a stimulating spiritual experience, the API is safe enough for hands-free play, water sports, and the inclusion of additional pleasure products. This remote-controlled device also offers a flared base for superior safety, with an attached two-way perineum stimulation pad that never misses the target. This second generation device offers 18 distinct pleasure settings with 4 variable speeds to explore at your own pace. And since it also features an interactive “Joy” button, you can create your own experiences to enjoy unpredictable stimulation at every turn. Among the myriad of awesome (and not-so-awesome) prostate massagers, I’ve ran across a few that will forever have my respect.



Then, test the settings on an external part of your body ahead of time because once it’s in your anus it might be too late. Remember back in the day when you begged your mom and dad for the Transformers action figure with the Kung-Fu grip and the working laser gun? Yeah, some things never change and, while you sit there in denial, the rest of us understand that adult toys need to have lots of bells and whistles too. Fortunately, most of them do these days, including things like integrated pleasure functions and performance modes that can be controlled with the touch of a button.

For those less experienced in anal play, this may be uncomfortable at first. But if you get into it, it’s a unique, pleasurable experience. The shape also ensures that once it’s inserted, it stays in place, like an anal plug or vibrating butt plug. It’s the most girthy toy we reviewed, which makes for an enjoyably snug fit. This might be intimidating for beginners and could be too big for someone who has never had anal sex or is new to anal play. GIDDI does make a slightly smaller prostate massager, TOMO, which could be better for first timers.

It takes time to fully relax the anal sphincter, so both you and your partner should be patient and ready to stop if anything hurts. Another sleek LELO massager, except this one comes with a tip that can move in a “come hither” motion. Plus, both nubs have motors to give you dual, and very, very powerful, sensations. It's hard to beat stainless steel in terms of pure luxury and beauty. This non-vibrating plug presses firmly against your prostate every time you squeeze your muscles around it, making it a super pleasurable addition to intercourse or oral sex.

This period is why most men, after having an orgasm, will no longer be aroused and quickly lose any erections. It takes anywhere from minutes to several hours for men to recover from the refractory period and continue having sex. Other times though, pain can be a sign of a larger problem, and you should thoroughly check your anus for signs of damage or bleeding. If you notice anything wrong, discontinue your use of adult toys until your body has fully recovered. Resting allows your body to get used to the sensation of having an object in your anal canal and gives the sphincter muscles further time to relax.

​For the rest of the important factors, our buying guide has you covered. The velvety smooth primary head feels great and cleans up easily. In the late 1990s the ineffectiveness of drug treatments for chronic prostatitis led to a brief resurgence of interest in prostate massage. In a recent trial, however, prostate massage was not shown to improve outcomes compared to antibiotics alone. The most important thing is to simply experiment and explore your own body and stay as relaxed as possible. Focus on the pleasurable sensations coming from your prostate, and allow them to spread throughout your body.

Overall it is a cool toy and has a pretty unique feeling as the ring slides up and down. BPH is an enlargement of the prostate that becomes more common with age. One 2009 review found that using a prostate massager relieved lower urinary tract symptoms of BPH.

Andrews credits the biggest spikes, in 2012 and 2015, to the popularity of 50 Shades of Grey. (The book was published in 2011, then turned into a movie in 2015.) While god awful in every way, it did mainstream a number of sexual practices, even while massively misrepresenting them. Consent and safety are key, so once you’ve got that settled you can get down to the fun part — experimenting with fingers, toys, and anything else that tickles your fancy. Fluid blockages in the reproductive system can cause pain during ejaculation.

From head to toes, experiment with pressure, impact, texture, temperature, and vibration. A body part may respond differently to your fingernails than it does to your fingertips or the tails of a leather flogger. Keep an open mind—you might find you enjoy a sensation you vibrating prostate massager didn’t expect, and preferences can change over time.